天下之人，誰不喜歡鳥語花香的春天？誰不渴望鶯歌燕舞的時光？誰不祈禱一帆風順的人生？可是，月有陰晴圓缺，年有春夏秋冬，人有悲歡離合，很多的事，很多的時候，不喜歡不代表不碰上，總在不經意間，我們會與坎坷不期而遇，有時甚至避之不及。

遭遇坎坷的時候，我們或許情緒過，容易感嘆命運，容易怨天尤人，容易夸大不幸。煩躁，焦急，憂傷，絕望，窒息，甚至難以自拔，仿佛周圍的一切都變了，美妙的音樂刺耳起來，七彩的顏色暗淡起來，快樂的日子痛苦起來。其實天空依然湛藍，河水依然清澈，樹林依然碧綠，只因心態一時難以適應，情緒糟了，感覺變了，觀念扭曲了。人生路上不可能時時陽光相伴，不可能處處風平浪靜，如果改變不了事實，那就改變我們的心態吧。

遭遇坎坷的時候，我們或許消極過，灰心喪氣，萎靡不振，郁郁寡歡。其實人生注定負重登山，攀高峰，陷低谷，處逆境，一波三折是人生之必然，我們不可能倒霉一輩子，山窮水盡疑無路，柳明花暗又一村，忍著忍著就面對了，挺著挺著就承受了，走著走著就過去了。人生總有這樣或那樣的不如意，一切的坎坷只是暫時的，找到解決問題的切入點，一笑而過，坎坷會使我們更成熟，更完美，更堅強地撐起自己的一片心靈天空。

遭遇坎坷的時候，我們或許想到過，沒有礁石激不起浪花，經不住坎坷成不了強者。毛毛蟲不經過痛苦不堪的蛻變，怎能破繭為美麗的蝴蝶？雄鷹不經過風刀雪劍的磨礪，怎能展示出叱咤風云的豪邁？鯉魚不經過驚濤駭浪的洗禮，怎能書寫下一躍龍門的傳說？失敗是大學，坎坷是財富，苦難是黃金，經過了浴火重生，才有了高貴的鳳凰；經過了苦寒煎熬，才有了傲雪的梅花；經過了反復

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