和許多人一樣,小時候,我一直以為成長是因為年幼。我學習,我鍛煉,我勞動,都是因為我還小,還得成長。而一旦長大,就不需要再付出任何努力。仿佛成長是一種儲蓄,只要存夠了一定的數額,就可以坐享其咸,再無旁憂。
后來才明白,不是這樣。
成長是一件最漫長的事情,漫長至終生。年齡階段不同,成長的主題不同:一歲成長的是身體,十歲成長的走知識,二十歲成長的是情感,五十歲成長的是智慧……無論哪一方面的側重,對于一個有悟性的人來說,成長都是一種必然的狀態。所謂“活到老,學到者”,學,就是成長的另一種說法。
成長是一件最豐饒的事情。因為成長,今天的麥苗是鮮綠的,明天就會變成金黃。因為成長,天的玫瑰是含苞的,明天就會嬌艷綻放。但不是所有的成長都有著明朗絢麗的色調,有些成長,注定是那種深沉厚重的樂章。你知道種莊稼有一道程序叫“蹲苗”嗎?就是天旱的時候也不去澆水,沒有水莊稼就不能往上長了,但是盞互丘連,它們就會拼命地往下扎根,吸取土層深處的水。這樣,它們的根就能扎得牢牢寥實的,再一澆水,就會長得又壯又穩。“蹲”,是一種必要的積蓄過程。不扎實地“蹲”,就不可能延展出發達的根系去獲得最豐厚的滋養,就不可能在低潮之后充滿爆發力地重新站起來。“蹲”,以一種外表的低姿態,隱含著一種 主站蜘蛛池模板: | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |