人不論是讀書或是工作,有時會認為似乎做起來不是很順,于是有的人會去找尋不順的地方,然后將它除去,最后到殺青功的彼岸。有人順流而下逆來順受,漂到哪里就到哪里,倒也盜得樂天知命的美名,也有人飄到天際就在天際抱怨,漂到海角就在海角呻吟。
積極心態是達到目的的助力,要積極之前需要先有一個明確的目標,而不是無的放矢,拼命三郎似的亂闖。祈愿(Wish)也不合于旺盛的妄圖心(Burning Desire),愿望(Hope)也只是愿望,假如沒有行動力的話。所以旺盛的妄圖心,能鼓舞一小我強烈的追求目標,世上有很多成功的人,都能認清并運用積極心態,然而這種力量若能經常(天天)運用,則能持續增強,到后來畢竟能養成習慣,對日后的生活及產生相當大的贊助。因為人的個性習慣決定他的平生的成功失敗與快樂與否。習慣的養成,一開始或許很不習慣,但稍微強迫一下自己,習慣就會成自然。若自己所訂的目標很明確,賡續地冥想殺青目標時的喜悅氣象,我再次強調我是指經常的冥想,平日可以支持自己持續奮斗下去。
人的『思惟』真的是很奇怪也很好玩,平日人想要的器械都邑實現,除非你不敢想。所以建議各位同伙,要經常想正面的器械,負面的話語也盡可能經由正面的字眼表達出來,例如:動作不要慢吞吞的,『不要』及『慢吞吞』都是負面的話,正面的話語等于動作快一點 主站蜘蛛池模板: | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |