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放下無謂的在意

時間:2017-03-30 17:05:00   來源:文章閱讀網  作者:網絡整理  點擊數:92    

有時候,明明只是一句普通得不能再普通的話,就會引起許多猜想,還因此輾轉反側,擾亂了心緒。放下無謂的在意,忘記這些不重要的小事,把精力放在尚未完成的事情上吧。

心里有事的時候,稍有風吹草動都會草木皆兵。別人的一句話、一個動作、一個眼神,都會下意識地以為別人看透了自己的心事,抑或是在試探自己。然后花幾個小時去思考那句話、那個動作、那個眼神到底是什么意思,想出了好幾個版本,擬定了好幾個對策之后,才能安心地等待對方下一步的行動??墒?,等了很久,對方也毫無動靜,就會擔心這是暴風雨前的寧靜,心里更是惴惴不安。過于驚慌的時候,反而會不小心露出端倪,讓別人察覺到異樣。

正所謂“說者無心,聽者有意”,很多時候都是自己太敏感,把別人的一舉一動想得太復雜。當自己在仔細琢磨別人那些舉動背后的含義時,別人早已忘記了那些,因為那只是無意識或者隨意做的事情,根本沒有那么多層意思。

想太多往往是自尋煩惱,把自己逼到墻角。經常把注意力放在猜測別人的舉動,沒有足夠的專注去完成任務,反而為自己增添更多的困擾。放下那些無謂的在意,不要讓自己鉆牛角尖,不去管別人要說什么做什么,只要管好自己就夠了。活著本來就艱難,沒必要為了別人讓自己活得更累。

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