有事斬然是一個(gè)人良好生存心態(tài)的具體體現(xiàn)，斷然處事的風(fēng)格，源自一個(gè)人良好的心態(tài)和氣質(zhì)；有利于人們始終保持富有激情和樂觀向上的生存心態(tài)。人生在世，總要遇到許多亟待處理的事情，如簡(jiǎn)單從事，事情非辦砸不可；如優(yōu)柔寡斷，沒有主見，那又非誤事不可。

三思而后行

人們常說，有四種抉擇是無可奈何的：饑不擇食，寒不擇衣，慌不擇路，貧不擇妻。饑不擇食常用來形容急于解決問題，顧不得有所選擇。人處在困境中時(shí)，往往是最沒有主意的，也是其意志最薄弱的時(shí)候，只要對(duì)自己擺脫困境有幫助的事都會(huì)毫不猶豫地去做。猶如一個(gè)溺水的人，那怕碰上一根稻草，也會(huì)當(dāng)作有很大的希望。結(jié)果，常常會(huì)陷入更大的困境。因此，人在抉擇之時(shí)，須從容決策，不可亂中出錯(cuò)。人還要未雨綢繆，不讓自己落入很艱難的處境后再尋求擺脫的方法。當(dāng)然，誰也不敢說自己不會(huì)遇上這樣的境況，但是有一點(diǎn)，自己卻可以做到的，那就是越是處于這樣的境地．越要保持高度的沉著冷靜，三思后行。這當(dāng)然是很難了。

人間有很多道理看上去頗為矛盾，比如一會(huì)告訴你"三思后行"，一會(huì)又告訴你"果敢善斷"。你就迷糊了，到底聽誰的呢？我是想好了再?zèng)Q定，還是快點(diǎn)決定好？到底想多長(zhǎng)時(shí)間算是"三思"了，過了哪個(gè)時(shí)間段就算是"當(dāng)

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