家有高考兒，每逢高考臨近，家長難免患得患失。同學偶爾小聚，總會互相取經(jīng)。已經(jīng)上大學的傳授經(jīng)驗，還沒高考的吸取教訓，正在高考的聽取參考。所謂孩子高考，家長如是。
現(xiàn)在，藝術(shù)類的考試基本已經(jīng)塵埃落定。聽同學言說，有一位男生，成績一直很好，為了畫畫舍棄最好的學校而上了藝術(shù)生。原本在學校一直是重點培養(yǎng)對象，成績也一直是名列前茅，可這次不管是聯(lián)考只得了個三B的分數(shù)，所有單考，沒有一個考上，弄不好，只能上大專。
許多人在惋惜之余，都不得其解。若說失常，一次兩次倒是說得過去，全部如此一敗涂地，真是讓人百思不得其解。你不能說是運氣不好，他也不是沒有真材實學，更不能說所有學校皆不喜歡他這類風格手法。
我想，最大的原因，該是心理問題。
一直考得好，一直寄于最大的期望，一直都只聽到贊美與嘆服，一直都只想著我要考上怎樣理想的大學，從來沒有想過，會有失常的時候。
第一次聯(lián)考失常，應該是給了他太大的打擊，這樣的打擊因為從來沒有心理準備從來不曾想過的失敗，讓他無法承受。接下來的考試，越怕就越考不好。
從來沒想過，會從高處跌落的人，一旦落入谷底，別說是應變能力，或者連求生的自信都無。
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