我有個閨蜜叫Y,女兒優(yōu)優(yōu)是個顛倒眾生的小美女,帶去麥當(dāng)勞都有回頭率。優(yōu)優(yōu)從小聽?wèi)T了夸贊,難免有點洋洋得意。名校畢業(yè)的Y很發(fā)愁,生怕閨女因此走上偶像路線不注重內(nèi)在素質(zhì)提高。說實話,她發(fā)愁的有點早,優(yōu)優(yōu)時年才三四歲,但Y已私下警告我們:以后看到她,不許夸漂亮!
有次Y要帶優(yōu)優(yōu)來我家,我提前跟我媽說:見了優(yōu)優(yōu)千萬別夸她漂亮,Y很忌諱。優(yōu)優(yōu)一進(jìn)門,我媽看了她一眼說:“就是……”真不愧是我媽。
然后我媽同Y就此事交換了意見,并認(rèn)為這么做很有必要。她教了三十多年書,知道最后能在學(xué)業(yè)上爬到巔峰的都不是漂亮姑娘,因為漂亮姑娘大多在半道上就跑偏了。當(dāng)然,這是她的經(jīng)驗之談。
我從小到大受的教育也是這樣:愛打扮是可恥的,愛打扮說明這人不愛學(xué)習(xí)。只關(guān)注外貌是膚淺的、庸俗的、上不得臺面。我的青春期就這樣度過:當(dāng)別人開始在外表上 主站蜘蛛池模板: | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |