從容是一種境界,需要修煉?;菽艽髱煾嬲]弟子們說(shuō):只有拋棄了內(nèi)外、生死、善惡、是非、禍福、利害、明暗等一切相對(duì),不偏執(zhí)拘束于任何一端,人才能進(jìn)入自由自在、無(wú)所羈絆的精神境界。
從容是一種自信。因?yàn)橛辛俗孕庞鍪虏棚@得冷靜、坦然,即便遇到突如其來(lái)的沉痛打擊,也會(huì)鎮(zhèn)定自若、泰然處之。工作、生活或是學(xué)習(xí)中難免會(huì)遇上這樣或那樣不盡人意、不甚完美的繁雜事情,我們只有抱以冷靜和坦然的心態(tài),才能從容有效地尋求解決困難的辦法。有人說(shuō):被人誤解時(shí)能微微一笑,是一種修養(yǎng);受委屈的時(shí)候能坦然一笑,是一種大度;吃虧的時(shí)候能開(kāi)心一笑,是一種豁達(dá);無(wú)奈的時(shí)候能達(dá)觀一笑,是一種境界;危難來(lái)臨時(shí)能泰然一笑,是一種大氣;面對(duì)萬(wàn)事萬(wàn)物能平靜的一笑,是一種從容。
比如女人,一個(gè)從容自信的女人一定要把自己打扮得清清爽爽,漂漂亮亮,昂首挺胸,微笑淡然,從容自若地面對(duì)生活。比如男人,一個(gè)從容的男人就是要有自信、獨(dú)立、睿智,面對(duì)困難從容以對(duì),不氣不餒,勇往直前;面對(duì)事情處變不驚,有責(zé)任心,對(duì)生活態(tài)度積極,知 主站蜘蛛池模板: | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |