蘇軾有一首詞《定風波》：“莫聽穿林打葉聲，何妨吟嘯且徐行。竹杖芒鞋輕勝馬，誰怕？一蓑煙雨任平生……”讀來讀去，我讀出了兩個字：淡定。

一個人進入了淡定的境界，他對物質享受的追求、對他人計謀的警惕、對名聲大小的關注，都會變得很輕了。這種淡然、安定，似乎是一種閑散，閑散中有著無需和他人攀比的自傲；似乎是一種自然，天人合一，物我無別。

人在年輕的時候往往是血氣方剛，不知道天高地厚，總認為自己什么都可以做到，中年后發現必須腳踏實地做點兒事情。如果沒有成就，老的時候會后悔。而進入老年的時候，忽然感到該干什么就干什么，世界萬物本來就是一個定數，人生其實只是一個過程，每個人不過是個匆匆過客。“寧靜而致遠”也罷，“難得糊涂”也罷，只是說法不同而已，內心其實已經是一種淡定。

所謂淡定，也指在名利誘惑面前不為所動的淡泊精神，得之淡然，失之泰然。太史公有言：“天下熙熙，皆為利來；天下攘攘，皆為利往。”乾隆問和

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