也許，你在生活中真的很苦很累。但真正讓你痛的，卻不是苦和累，而是孤單。也就是說，在痛的蒼茫里，不是首先要看到彼岸，而是要看到同病相憐的人影。因為，當彼岸太遙遠，身邊綽綽的人影，才讓你心安。痛到踽踽獨行，最容易心生凜冽，而一顆凜冽的心，會讓襟懷變得促狹。

人在這時候，會不停地追問：這么大的世界，為什么痛的偏偏是我？不能不說，這是人性的灰暗之處。這種灰暗，是扭曲的反抗。因為，強大的追問，常常會把痛逼到絕地，把人逼到絕境。痛到委屈，就會覺得自己越發地可憐，而越可憐，就會越孤單。

命運的荒寒處，只有一個人在戰斗，勢單力薄不怕，怕的是形單影只。有時候，甚至可以堅強到連孤單都不怕了，要命的是，你還得裝作不孤單。人生的一部分痛苦還在于，有苦不能言，有苦無人可言。表面上，強大到談笑風生，一轉身，

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