一、用放大鏡看別人的優(yōu)點(diǎn)。
視力模糊看不清影像,可以用放大鏡來(lái)看;字體太小看不清內(nèi)容,也可以用放大鏡來(lái)看。我們對(duì)別人的優(yōu)點(diǎn)也應(yīng)該用放大鏡來(lái)觀看。可惜人都喜歡看別人的缺點(diǎn),不喜歡看優(yōu)點(diǎn);除了自謙自愛的人,一般人往往嫉妒別人的優(yōu)點(diǎn)。假如我們用放大鏡看別人的優(yōu)點(diǎn):張先生聰明能干、李先生忠厚老實(shí)……如此所有諸相識(shí)者,在你的放大鏡下看來(lái)都是美好善良的人,則人生還有什么不如意的呢?
二、用顯微鏡看自己的缺點(diǎn)。
人都懂得用鏡子來(lái)整理自己的儀容,卻很少用鏡子來(lái)看自己的缺點(diǎn)。一般人都喜歡為自己護(hù)短,不容易看到自己的缺點(diǎn)。假如能用顯微鏡把自己的缺點(diǎn)看清楚,諸如自私、執(zhí)著、 主站蜘蛛池模板: | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |