對(duì)水的比擬甚多。一句“上善若水,水善利萬(wàn)物而不于萬(wàn)物相爭(zhēng)”,說(shuō)最高尚的品德像給萬(wàn)物帶來(lái)益處而不求回報(bào)的水一樣,可謂把對(duì)水的比擬推向某種極致。近讀有關(guān)新解“上善若水”的文字,感念世事人生,不覺(jué)便生出感慨:以水為鏡,可映鑒人生。人生如水,方瀟灑一世。
有一個(gè)總是落魄不得志的人,有人向他推薦智者。智者沉思良久,默然舀起一瓢水,問(wèn):“這水是什么形狀?”這人搖頭:“水哪有什么形狀?”智者不答,只是把水倒入杯子,這人恍然:“我知道了,水的形狀像杯子。”智者無(wú)語(yǔ),又把杯子中的水倒入旁邊的花瓶,這人悟道:“我知道了,水的形狀像花瓶。”智者搖頭,輕輕端起花瓶,把水倒入一個(gè)盛滿沙土的盆。清清的水便一下融入沙土,不見(jiàn)了。
這個(gè)人陷入了沉默與思索。智者彎身抓起一把沙土,嘆道:“看,水就這么消逝了,這也是一生!”這個(gè)人對(duì)智者的話咀嚼良久,高興地說(shuō):“我知道了,您是通過(guò)水告訴我,社會(huì)處處像一
“是這樣。”智者拈須,轉(zhuǎn)而又說(shuō),“又不是這樣!”說(shuō)畢,智者出門,這人隨后。在屋檐下,智者伏下身子,手在青石板的臺(tái)階上摸了一會(huì)兒,然后頓住。這人把手指伸向剛才智者所觸摸之地,他感到有一個(gè)凹處。他不知道這本來(lái)平整的石階上的“小窩”藏著什么玄機(jī)。
智者說(shuō):“一到雨天,雨水就會(huì)從屋檐落下,看這個(gè)凹處就是水落下的結(jié)果。”此人遂大悟:“我明白了,人可能被裝入規(guī)則的容器,但又應(yīng)該像這小小的水滴,改變著這堅(jiān)硬的青石板,直到破壞容器。”
智者說(shuō):“對(duì),這個(gè)窩會(huì)變成一個(gè)洞!”
人生如水,我們既要盡力適應(yīng)環(huán)境,也要努力改變環(huán)境,實(shí)現(xiàn)自我。我們應(yīng)該多一點(diǎn)任性,能夠在必要的時(shí)候彎一彎,轉(zhuǎn)一轉(zhuǎn),因?yàn)樘珗?jiān)硬容易折斷。古人云,皎皎者易污, 主站蜘蛛池模板: | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |