笑是一種心態(tài)的面相化!俗話說(shuō)“笑一笑十年少,愁一愁白了頭!”“相逢一笑泯恩仇!”所以說(shuō),愛笑,不但可以緩解自己的緊張焦慮與抑郁,還能給別人帶來(lái)愉悅、快樂和美好的心情,甚至讓你與”怨敵“重回和諧的人際關(guān)系,更會(huì)讓你的外貌變得比同齡人年輕!
而憂愁和悲傷就不是這樣了,長(zhǎng)期的心情壓抑與焦慮,可以讓人的面相變得悲苦、疲憊、甚至身姿變得老態(tài)龍鐘!就是實(shí)際年齡再年輕,而心理年齡也會(huì)把整日憂愁的人加速變老!所以說(shuō),心態(tài)決定年齡!情緒決定健康呵呵。。。
修行,就是要讓自己的臉永遠(yuǎn)面帶微笑!不管什么樣的人,都要對(duì)他(她)敞開你慈悲敞亮的大愛之心,微笑體現(xiàn)一個(gè)人的善良與包容的內(nèi)心,和善體現(xiàn)一個(gè)人的高尚與修養(yǎng),而柔軟的愛語(yǔ)呢,則體現(xiàn)一個(gè)人當(dāng)下所處的修行層次!
太多的互相傷害,往往因?yàn)橐痪洳欢Y貌的話,致死人命也僅僅因?yàn)橐痪鋹赫Z(yǔ)相向!須知,語(yǔ)言即可葬送一個(gè)人的寶貴生命,也可讓一個(gè)絕望的人重拾活下去的信心!而微笑,則能讓一個(gè)人的心從冰冷變得溫暖!從 主站蜘蛛池模板: | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |