我們在這個世界上都會犯的一個錯誤就是，你以為自己很重要，別人都會在乎你的事情、談論你的事情，而且，他們這種做，會傷害到你。其實，事情不是這樣的。比方說，我們都知道以前有個老演員阮玲玉，她當年自殺了。死前留下的遺言是：人言可畏。我也近距離的聽說一位我們華人國際巨星，在流言滿天飛的時候，曾經認真的考慮過要自殺。

她說，當時打開電視，就看到阮玲玉的消息。當下一轉念，決定不死了，而且要給那些蜚短流長的人好看——她要活的更好，更出彩。果然，后來她的演出獲得了肯定，得到很多獎項。

你真的沒有你想象的那么重要。而更重要的是，別人的傳言、小話，真的傷害不到你。別人說什么、怎么看，其實根本是與你無關的。比方說，今天有一件關于你的事情發生了，別人是怎么看你的呢？別人怎么看你，完全取決于當下他的狀況和需求。就比如說是

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