說話是一種簡單易懂的表達方式，同時也是促進人與人之間關系的一種溝通交流行為。所以，每當我們煩惱、有心事、遇到困難、痛苦、失望、無助、甚至無聊、寂寞的時候，我們總是會問自己，該找誰說，又該怎么說，說還是不說？一大串的問題等待我們的選擇，如果你有選擇困難癥，那我無話可說，不過，可以看看我給你的分析 。現在針對主要矛盾，說還是不說？

首先，第一種觀點，說。當說話對象和表達方式確定之后，你一定會糾結，要不要說呢，說完他/她會怎么想，能不能達到預期想要的效果？實際上這些問題都是雜念，既然一切都已經確定，那就說吧。不管你想要說的事情是好事還是壞事，是喜事還是

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