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時間:2017-03-30 17:06:57   來源:文章閱讀網  作者:飛花輕似夢  點擊數:105    

活著,不僅僅是為自己活,為親人、為家庭、為虛榮,剩下的才是為自己。無論如何都要活的快樂。真實的快樂。    

制定計劃很重要,但,人,不能成為只為了計劃而生活的本本主義者,日子在繼續,舊的計劃在實現,新的計劃在被制定,成為計劃的奴隸更可怕。所以,要制定有彈性的計劃。     

“ 福無雙至,禍不單行”此言一點不假,在你手忙腳亂應付一個難過的時候,往往自己就會制造下一個難過,也或許,下一個難過就在悄悄地等著你,不過,沒有過不去的河,淚還未干,下一個驚喜就已經準備好行囊來你身邊小住了,“不以物喜,不以己悲”是境界。     

面對身邊的小人,一定要淡然,“防人之心不可無”,但,如若整天想著防他,生活不快樂,豈不正中小人下懷?因此,要坦蕩做人,適當防人。    

生活中,不急不躁、不溫不火、慢條斯理,是優雅;雷厲風行、兵貴神速、迅猛火爆,是效率 ,又何必去強求誰更好和誰更弱呢? 

也許真正地超脫極難達到,但真的應該學著灑脫一些,輕松一些,不必給自己強加太多的壓力,不必讓自己掉進一個個陷阱里——思維的陷阱里不能自拔。終究只能是自尋煩惱,自己何苦為難自己呢?

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