1.學會忍讓。忍讓，屬于人生哲學的范疇。忍讓，是為人生者之必修課程。忍下無小，以忍進德，是忍之真諦之所在。

古人的偉大與深刻，僅憑造就一“忍”字即可凸現。心頭扎著刀，刀刃鮮血淋淋，其境遇與滋味，還用言說？

注重“忍”，推崇忍讓，是華夏民族數千載文明史的最大特色，亦是我們為人處事的切實需要。忍一時風平浪盡，退一步海闊天空！忍確實難，于是其益愈顯。更何況“小不忍則亂大謀”。

失于忍，其受累大矣！常聞街市中因一語相悖，兄弟間為爭半棵果樹的遺產，便弄得輕則惡語以對，重則拳腳相加，甚或刀斧血拚，就只因為沒有一方能稍予忍讓。在古代，更有“二桃殺三士”的悲劇上演，不也就是不能一忍嗎？就因為少那么一忍，致使我們的“老晏”神氣千古。

“忍小忿而就大謀”，古來有道不盡的佳話。司馬遷忍辱以成《史記》，孔子困蔡而作《春秋》，文王囚

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