周末,陽光明媚,接孩子回家的路上,去花卉市場給自己買了一束太陽花。抱著花回來的路上,碰到17樓的阿姨,阿姨問我:“買這干啥?不能吃不能喝的,還不如買點(diǎn)菜呢。”我笑笑,并沒有辯解。
其實(shí),阿姨已經(jīng)不是第一次這么說我了,節(jié)儉的老人們一般都喜歡實(shí)惠、有用的菜,卻不喜歡奢侈、無用的鮮花,我理解阿姨的說法,但堅(jiān)決不改。因?yàn)槊恐芙o自己買一束花,是我最重要的儀式感之一。
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儀式感到底是什么?
我還記得《小王子》里小王子和狐貍之間的對話:
小王子問狐貍:“儀式是什么?”
狐貍說:“它就是使某一天與其他日子不同,使某一刻與其他時(shí)刻不同。”
多精辟的總結(jié)啊。
一束花就是讓我的周末和其他工作日不同的最美妙提醒,以這束花為界,工作日的所有煩惱和忙碌、不安和無序都遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)地隔在門外,周末的所有愉悅和期待、興奮和歡樂都暖暖地握在手中,這么美妙的體驗(yàn),我才不會(huì)不舍得買花呢。
除了買花,我還喜歡在陽臺上 主站蜘蛛池模板: | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |