20世紀60年代，心理學家查榮茨做過試驗：先向被試者出示一些照片，有的出現了二十多次，有的出現了十多次，有的只出現一兩次，然后請被試者評價對照片的喜愛程度。結果發現：被試者更喜歡那些看過多次的照片，即看的次數增加了喜歡的程度。

另一位社會心理學家也通過試驗證實了上述觀點。

在一所大學的女生宿舍樓里，心理學家隨機找了幾個寢室，發給她們不同口味的飲料，然后要求這幾個寢室的女生，以品嘗飲料為理由，在這些寢室間互相走動，但見面時不得交談。一段時間后，心理學家評估他們之間的熟悉和喜歡的程度，結果發現：見面的次數越多，互相喜歡的程度越大；見面次數越少或根本沒有，相互喜歡程度則較低。

這是人的一種特殊的心理狀態。基于這種心理狀態，要想在人際交往中給人留下美好深刻的印象，就要遵照這一心理，切忌與它發生沖突。

有些人為了在別人心中留下不錯的印象，每次見面都想通過長談讓人徹底了解自己，但結果往往事與愿違，常搞得對方有些不耐煩，覺得他這個人太過

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