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讓,是人生至高境界

時間:2015-01-25 23:19:58   來源:文章閱讀網  作者:網絡整理  點擊數:125    

生活中,總會遇到種種誘惑和利益紛爭。面對紛爭,有人絞盡腦汁,處心積慮,爾虞我詐,上下其手。爭來爭去,地位爭到了,快樂不見了;財富爭到了,幸福不見了;榮譽爭到了,修養不見了;面子爭到了,友情不見了;利益爭到了,心安不見了。你死我活爭來的,往往并不是當初所盼的,而是煩惱痛苦和疲倦不堪。

反過來,把利益看淡一些,把世事看透一些,讓一讓,我們會發現,笑臉多了,熱情多了,握手多了,真誠多了,和諧多了,朋友多了,快樂多了。我們讓出一小步,竟然得到豐厚的回報。

退一步天高海闊,讓三分心平氣和。

寬讓,謙讓,忍讓,退讓,雖然使我們暫時失去面子,失去利益,但卻讓我們擁有了優雅的風度和快樂平和的心境,讓我們看到了天高云淡的風景。原來,得與失總是相對平衡的,我們失去的,總會以另一種方式得到加倍補償。

一紙家書只為墻,讓它三尺又何妨;萬里長城今猶在,不見當年秦始皇。

清代宰相張英主動撤墻后讓的,是多么寬宏的度量和胸懷啊!

爭一爭,行不通;讓一讓,六尺巷。

讓,是一種修養,是一種美德,也是人生的至高境界。

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