国产午夜剧场-国产污污视频-国产污视频在线观看-国产污片在线观看-爆操波多野结衣


當前位置: > 人生哲理 > 真正的高手


真正的高手

時間:2017-09-12 21:35:39   來源:文章閱讀網  作者:網絡整理  點擊數:93    

據說,左宗棠很喜歡下圍棋,而且,還是個高手。

有一次,左宗棠微服出巡,看見有一茅舍,橫梁上掛著匾額“天下第一棋手”,左宗棠不服,入內與茅舍主人連弈三盤。

主人三盤皆輸,左宗棠笑道:“你可以將此匾額卸下了!”

隨后,左宗棠自信滿滿,興高采烈地走了。

沒過多久,左宗棠得勝歸來,又路過此處,他又好奇地找到這間茅舍,赫然看到“天下第一棋手”之匾額仍未拆下。左宗棠入內,與主人再下三盤。

這次,左宗棠三盤皆輸。

左宗棠大感訝異,問茅舍主人何故?

主人答:“上回,您有任務在身,要率兵打仗,我不能挫您的銳氣,現今,您已得勝歸來,我當然全力以赴,當仁不讓啦!”

世間真正的高手,是能勝,而不一定要勝,有謙讓別人的胸襟;能贏,而不一定要贏,有善解人意的意愿。

生活又何嘗不是如此呢?

聰明不一定有智慧,但是智慧一定包括聰明;

聰明的人得失心重,有智慧的人則勇于舍得。

真正的耳聰是能聽到心聲,真正的目明是能透視心靈

看到,不等于看見;

看見,不等于看清;

看清,不等于看懂;

看懂,不等于看透;

看透,不等于看開。

常常聽人說:“沒文化真可怕!”可“文化”到底是什么呢?是學歷?是經歷?是閱歷?

都不是。看到了一個很靠譜的解釋,說文化可以用四句話表達:根植于內心的修養;無需提醒的自覺;以約束為前提的自由;為別人著想的善良

受益匪淺!與大家共勉。

熱門專題:






主站蜘蛛池模板: | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |