之所以說題目這句話,是因為心有感觸…
是不是人老了感觸會特別多的呢?或許吧!臨近不惑嘛!
古人說三十而立四十而不惑。不惑,是對于仁義禮有完全的了解,有完全的了解所以不惑,而立是做事能循禮,但并不完全了解,孔子說:“智者不惑。”又說:“智及之,仁不能守之,雖得之,必失之。”即表明了智和仁的關系。因此,不惑是對于仁義禮有完全的了解,達到智者的地步。
除了元旦放假那三天自己老翁賴發少年狂般用了三個通宵沒日沒夜看完《蝸居》及《媳婦的美好時代》外,這段時間我一直在看《百家講壇》。我如獲至寶地汲取有關謀略處世等方面的知識。這段時間學到的知識可以總結成兩個字:“堅忍!”一種韜光養晦的“堅忍”!
人到了一定的歲數就會知道:很多事都不能急,急有什么用呢?欲速則不達!
莊子曾說過一寓言故事,大意是說紀 主站蜘蛛池模板: | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |