老和尚問小沙彌：“如果你進一步則死，退一步則亡，你應該怎么辦？”小沙彌毫不猶豫地說：“我往旁邊去。”

往旁邊去!是那樣地顯而易見。這種生活中的簡單道理我們誰都懂得，但在生活的過程中，卻又常常容易被一些人忘記。每當看到或聽到某某人因高考落榜而割腕，因戀愛失敗而上吊，因家庭變故而臥軌，因生意賠本而跳樓，因仕途無望而投河……等等悲劇的時候，我的心里總是陣陣作痛，為他們可惜、可悲、可嘆，難道這些人的智慧連小沙彌都不如嗎？

中國有句老話，叫做“天無絕人之路”，說的很有道理。人生的路很長，但也很多。為環境所迫，為條件所困，為生活所累，為情感所惑……有些事情我們是無法改變的。但是，當我們不能改變全部時，卻有可能改變局部。生活中，我們有時在一條路

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