凡是偉大的人物從來不承認生活是不可改造的,他也許會對他當時所處的環(huán)境不滿意,不過他的不滿意不但不會使他抱怨和不快樂,反而使他充滿一股熱忱想闖出一番事業(yè)來。
意志力是一個人性格特征中的核心力量
柏克斯頓曾經(jīng)是一個頭腦簡單四肢發(fā)達的頑童,他的與眾不同之處就在于他堅強的意志力,這種意志力在他幼年曾表現(xiàn)為喜歡暴力、飛揚跋扈和固執(zhí)己見。他自幼喪父,所幸的是他母親很有見識。她敦促他磨煉自己的意志,在強迫他服從的同時,對一些可以讓他自己去做的事,她總是鼓勵他自拿主意自作主張。他母親堅信如果加以正確引導(dǎo),形成一個有價值的目標的堅強意志,對一個人來說是最難能可貴的品質(zhì)。當有人向她談及兒子的任性時,她總是淡然地說:“沒關(guān)系的,他現(xiàn)在是固執(zhí)任性,你會看到最終會對他有好處的。”當柏克斯頓處于形成正義還是邪惡的人生目標這一個人生歷程的緊要關(guān)頭,他幸運地與一個家庭以良好的社會品行著稱的姑娘結(jié)了婚。 主站蜘蛛池模板: | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |