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且莫傷情

時間:2015-04-27 13:57:39   來源:文章閱讀網  作者:劉墉  點擊數:142    

某人滴酒不沾,但是每次初識的人送他酒,他都會露出興奮的笑容,舉起瓶子,慢慢念上面印的酒名。

那些初識的人,后來成為他的好朋友,都責怪他以前“很假”,明明不喝酒卻裝作興奮的樣子。

他說:“我們常說‘禮輕情意重’,也可以講‘禮錯情意重’,重要的是你的情,不是禮。在你以為我會很高興的期盼下,如果我說自己滴酒不沾,豈非潑你冷水?我們又怎么可能成為知交呢?”

逢年過節,某教授常有學生給他送禮,他總會在學生告辭時說:“有件事,請你幫幫忙,幫我把堆不下的水果帶一點兒走,免得壞了!”

當學生送梨時,他可能請對方帶蘋果走。而當學生送蘋果時,他可能拿出梨。他總說對方送的禮,正是他最喜歡的,也總再三感謝對方能幫他解決堆不下東西的煩惱

每個到他家的人,都覺得如沐春風

一對夫妻吵架要離婚。

“他剛吃完東西,沒有洗手就摸我的臉。”太太說,于是吵了起來。

“她嫌我臟!”丈夫說,“可是她不想想,我為什么會去摸她已經一大堆皺紋的臉?那是因為愛呀!”

體諒與對等的回應,是人與人交往最重要的原則。世間傷情的事,莫過于當對方熱情地付出時,澆以一盆冷水。那不但傷情,更傷自尊。這兩項都傷了,還可能有好結果嗎?

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