在我們的生活中，常常會(huì)遇到這樣一些人：他們有一句口頭禪就是“我這是為你好”，然后常常打著“我這是為你好”的幌子，以“過來人”的身份給別人潑冷水，或提一些看似高瞻遠(yuǎn)矚實(shí)則毫無趣味、毫無建設(shè)性的意見，最后在發(fā)表完一番宏論后總要標(biāo)志性地加一句“我這人說話直，你就當(dāng)聽聽好了，千萬別往心里去”。

這種看似是為朋友指點(diǎn)迷津的行為，實(shí)則只是為了顯擺他們在某些事情上的所謂“見解”罷了，然而，這種假裝的高明對(duì)于幫別人解決問題，毫無幫助。人們總以為只要在話語結(jié)尾來一句“我這人說話直”就可以為自己的低情商開脫了，別人就真的不會(huì)往心里去，可實(shí)際情況真的是這樣嗎？

你之蜜糖，我之砒霜。

恐怕這種看似涂滿蜜汁實(shí)則帶刺的話，沒有人聽了不會(huì)往心里去！

麻辣女主持小S說：“做自己跟沒禮貌常常就是一線之間，每次聽到別人說：‘我這個(gè)人說話就是比較直。’我就開始冒汗，因?yàn)榻酉聛硪欢〞?huì)有一些被他歸類為直其實(shí)挺刺耳的話出現(xiàn)，例如：‘你今天氣色怎么這么差？’‘最近胖

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