你那么好說話，一定不懂得拒絕吧

文|儲楊

小欣給我發來微信吐槽，說是自己的主任壓榨自己，我很是吃驚，倒不是驚訝小欣在工作上被壓榨，只是想不到脾氣向來很好的小欣也會情緒暴走。

小欣在一所民辦三本院校的圖書館上班，以前在書庫的時候，每天和書打交道，做好本職工作、服從領導安排也算輕輕松松。

就在幾個月前，她被調到了參考咨詢部。小欣說，她的噩夢就從那里開始。小欣的主任很年輕，是個三十多歲的女人，從小欣剛進辦公室開始，就沒完沒了地給小欣派任務。小欣告訴我，就算辦公室里其他人是清閑的，主任還是會把事情往她那里推。

最可恨的是有一次，小欣來例假，身體非常不舒服。中午一點的時候，別的部門做活動，臨時需要有人去幫個忙，當時辦公室里除了主任，還有小欣和另外一個姑娘，主任卻硬是把明顯不舒服的小欣喊醒，派她去幫忙，其虐身心程度，小欣后來回憶起還是十分憤怒。

小欣說：“主任就是欺負我這個人好說話。”

我想了想說：“對呀，有些人就愛指使好說話的人做事。”

其實，生活中，每個人或多或少都會遇見這種事，因為自身性格又或是因為不想得罪別人，所以，你寧愿委屈自己，也不愿意勇敢說“不”，久而久之，你就變成了大家心中那個“好說話”的人。

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