俗話說,說話和傾聽是人的兩大技能,有些人能言善辯,有的人沉默寡言;有些人是最佳聽眾,有些人則不善傾聽。其實,說話是一門語言的藝術,更是一種能力。會說話的人不見得有多愛說話,但與之交談往往給人以相見恨晚,如沐春風之感。那么,如何變成一個會說話的人?
生活中,我們常常會看到這樣一些人,他們特別愛說話,殊不知在滔滔不絕中,卻在別人的耳朵里是聒噪不自知,你以為的“妙語”也可能暗藏禍端。
會說話是一種能力,我們常常用“口才很好”來稱贊別人。什么樣的人才算是口才很好,其實很簡單,能夠在與人交談中,讓他人感到舒服、讓自己感到放松,就是一個會說話的人。
什么樣的人才是會說話?首先要“能說話”,語言表達要流暢,思維邏輯要清晰,這是最基本的要求,如果一個人 主站蜘蛛池模板: | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |