能一趟辦完的事，就不要分成兩趟辦。

處處示弱、藏而不露是心計；處處留心、多留一念即心計。

培養嚴謹的性格。銘記一條原則：能一個人知道的事就不要讓兩個人知道。能兩個人說的話，就不要在有三個人的場合里說。

培養嚴謹的性格。二人議事時，說話要小心，表態要審慎，謹防對方錄音。然可暗中給對方錄音，握其把柄。

培養嚴謹的性格，能夠時刻自如掌控和駕馭自己言行、情緒與心神。每說一句話前，能夠有意識地克制把控、沉吟片刻，經過大腦思慮一遍。先想再說、快想慢說、想好再說、慢慢說、邊想邊說。

除了自己，絕不相信任何人。人心險惡，把人只管往最壞處想，寧可錯冤一千，不可輕信一個。時常懷疑身邊人欲行奸牟利，做損害我而有利于他自己之事。留此一心，但要深埋于心不可顯露。不可信人，信人則制于人。

謙和，乃為人處世之不二法寶。必能因此而得人心，獲取實際的利益。但是光謙和是不夠的，那只是給對方一時的感受，關鍵是要給予對方實際的利益，他才會真正歸心。

外表玄默，內里明察秋毫。對身邊的每個人都心里有數，對方撅撅屁股就知道他要干什么。

永遠把主動權掌握在自己手里，塑造可進可退之勢。蟄伏窺伺動態，暗中推波助瀾，不急于出手。

永遠要保證自己手里至少有一張牌握著，即便你心里已然打算要廢掉這張牌，也要在找到下一張牌之前，表面

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