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小人的特點:喜歡背后議論別人

時間:2020-02-03 04:00:02   來源:文章閱讀網  作者:網絡整理  點擊數:512    

中國自古多出小人,因為我們民族本身就很功利。小人在高位者,多賣國以求榮,而處低谷者,多只能出賣朋友,挑撥離間以獲取微利,至今亦然。 

在尊者面前,搖尾乞憐,極盡巴結之能事,所謂遛須拍馬之輩,而一朝得志,則趾高氣揚,巴不得把屁股當臉使,以顯其尊貴。 朋友面前,從不說真話,要么背后挖苦之,此乃對其無用之人,要么極力吹捧,多在人前,以求得一杯羹。 

此種人多嚴于律人,而寬以待己,對別人極盡刻薄,總不滿意,而對于自己,卻極度寬容,還總覺得別人總不順自己的意,沒有把自己當皇帝一樣供起來。 

此種人總自以為大材小用,總覺得自己非池中物,總要踩著別人往上爬,對于別人的幫助總覺得理所當然,自然毫無感恩之心。 

此種人喜歡背后議論別人,在朋友間挑撥離間,而你們之間的秘密談話,總神不知鬼不覺地公之于眾,對于別人的傾訴,內心上總冷嘲熱諷之,當作笑話罷。對于別人的不順從,總懷恨在心,欲伺機報復。 

我這個人從來都不愿意掩飾對他們的厭惡,有時寬容點,忽視其存在,而有時他們總在你跟前晃啊晃,那只好給以臉色,讓其知情而退,我不敢說天下皆醉而唯我獨醒,但敢說,世間多庸俗之人,而自己還算看得過去的那個,因此很多時候,告誡自己,何必煩惱呢?哪怕天下皆小人,被陽奉陰違所籠罩,至少還有父母給予我真誠,至少自己還對自己真誠,因此我是那種不會為了所謂功利化的交際圈考量而強顏歡笑的人,不喜歡的人就得給他臉色,不然怎么對得起對我真誠的人。

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