喜宴上紅包，似乎是亞洲人才有的習(xí)俗。西方社會就沒有，例如美國白人習(xí)慣由女兒的爸爸支付婚禮費(fèi)用，親朋好友不給紅包，而是認(rèn)購新人羅列出來的“婚禮禮物”清單，清單多半是婚后家庭生活所需的東西。

日本人對于禮金，針對不同的人際關(guān)系各有清楚明白的定價，中國人則顯得彈性多了，可以根據(jù)包禮者(和新人)的關(guān)系、身份、經(jīng)濟(jì)狀況、性格、場合、經(jīng)驗(yàn)還有時下行情，斟酌判斷。雖然稱不上每一包都能令人滿意，但多少能從中檢視自己和對方的關(guān)系的認(rèn)定是否一致（例如你認(rèn)為和對方很好，對方卻包遠(yuǎn)低于市場行情的禮金給你，而他又不是小氣或經(jīng)濟(jì)狀況有問題時，通常代表雙方對于這段人際關(guān)系的認(rèn)知有落差）。

喜宴紅包是件麻煩事，不過對親族、同學(xué)、朋友等較為穩(wěn)固的社會關(guān)系來說，該包多少，心里多半有數(shù)，反而是“公司同事”該包多少，很難拿捏。

同事的紅色炸彈該怎么接？

上班族最害怕的交際應(yīng)酬，當(dāng)屬同事的婚宴，特別是公司大，部門人數(shù)多，且多為有對象之適婚年齡者。

紅色炸彈如果不約而同的

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