作為下屬,在挨罵或受到警告、指責時,心里都會不痛快。盡管你知道,這是再正常不過的事了,可還是常常會產生抵觸情緒,從而影響到你和老板的關系。所以,要提高對批評的免疫力,面對批評時要理性對待,切不可沖動急躁為自己找借口開脫。
無論是強者或是弱者,自己的心情不能被別人的斥責所擾亂,而應當保持彈性,經常保持冷靜,挨罵時只要低頭認錯就好。既然老板已經斥責了,還是干干脆脆地道歉吧。這才是下屬應持的態度。
阿虎在公司是個有見地的人,老板一直認為他很穩健,懂得做事分寸。可是,有時候他難免也會犯點小錯誤。上司或者同事批評他,他不會跟別人表現的那樣急躁,而是虛心聽。所以,他來到公司短短一年,就贏得了上司的信賴。
阿虎的同事曉風是個業績很好的人,可他一直沒有受到上司重視。這讓他一直很苦惱。這天,曉風有些事做得不對,同事就順口批評了他幾句。曉風感覺面子下不來,當場就向那個同事叫起來:“你有什么資格說我?! 主站蜘蛛池模板: | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |